I don't know if Dave is friendly with these guys but I felt like posting this here. I very seldom go on FH, I used to years ago but in the past couple years I probably have visited the site a handful of times. So I was talking in their political 'war' forum today and got banned until 2/19 for calling someone princess.
While the entire site is moderated, there is more leeway allowed on the political forum. Most of our forum is conservative and libertarian, but we have never banned a "snowflake" for whining too loudly. They usually leave because of other reasons;)
As far as FinHeaven, I admire them for their ability to handle so much traffic. I used to be friends with their last owner, but he sold the site a couple of years ago to someone that I have not met. I'm sure the new owner is a decent person. With a site so large I am sure that he entrusts his moderators to do their jobs ... especially since they do it for free.
I do appreciate you guys for your devotion to our site. We are an older group of guys here with a whole lot of Dolphin and life experience to share with each other.